You Are An INFP

The Idealist You are a creative person with a great imagination. You enjoy living in your own inner world. Open minded and accepting, you strive for harmony in your important relationships. It takes a long time for people to get to know you. You are hesitant to let people get close to you. But once you care for someone, you do everything you can to help them grow and develop. In love, you tend to have high (and often unrealistic) standards. You are very sensitive. You tend to have intense feelings. At work, you need to do something that expresses your personal values. You would make an excellent writer, psychologist, or artist. How you see yourself: Unselfish, empathetic, and spiritual When other people don't get you, they see you as: Unrealistic, naive, and weak

What's Your Personality Type?

finally posting this up.. this is SOO super accurate!! i know sound just a little loserish for being so excited over a personality test, but oh well.. it's just hard to put down my personality in words and this is pretty close..



INFPs get along well with other INFPs.. which explains why i'm stuck with lisa i guess.. haha!! anyway, as seen from above, it is hard to get to know me.. but don't try too hard (ok, not like many ppl are clamouring to get to know me la.. ) cos i dun respond well to that.. for me, relationships should be a very natural thing.. it shouldn't be like, oh i plan to know you better.. oh i plan to build a relationship with you etc.. (which i know alot of ppl do)



it should be like.... natural!! ok, i know my vocab is very limited.. sorry about that.. yup, i think your friendships with pple reflect the kind of person you are.. and that's why i honestly have limited true friends.. because i only show my true self to ppl i can totally trust..



which brings me to my views on hypocrisy.. everyone has a little of that don't they?? i mean sometimes just trying to be polite to someone you really hate is being hypocritical wad.. but you're merely being polite!! well, i'm no saint and i do admit to having a facade sometimes..



like how i'm oddly happy all the time.. cracking stupid jokes, making fun of pple (psst weiyan time for you to start crying).. no one sees through it, or at least i think no one does.. oh well, i've thought about this before and i realise i do it cos i like being the caregiver.. i dun like worrying people, i dun like being the one who has to be taken care of..



well at least to most ppl i feel that way.. to pple whom i can be true to, THEY BETTER TAKE GOOD CARE OF ME!!! haha.. right now though i can only think of 2 or 3 pple who can do that... and surprisingly enough, darius chng my favourite chocolate boy is one of them!!


he knows when my smile is faked.. weird huh.. plus he does take care of me.. *wink wink* i know he does.. that night when he called cos i told him i had a bad day, i was touched.. (: luckily i know he doesn't read my blog, or else i will never tell him this.. so diu lian pls!!

i think i hold back my trust cos i hate being judged.. and not like i know alot of ppl who are downright judgemental.. but when you form a mental note of somebody, no matter how small?.. to me, i hate that.. and i know ALOT OF PEOPLE DO THAT!! yes, im talking about you.. haha.. like how if i say certain things that may not be so politically correct, judgements form in many people's minds.. but not with those i truly trust.. i know that doesn't happen... telepathic powers leh!!



with the "sarah will never be a wife" thing still ringing in my head i guess i should lower my standards huh.. haha!! i seriously dun think my standards are high ok.. it's just the combination of traits that i want is weird.. like how besides being smart, he has to be stupid.. so like he has to have both witty and stupid kind of humour, u know?.. haha.. very few people on this earth are like that! i think lisa is one.. although her stupid humour is like, her falling down and stuff, basic unglamness..



oh, and he has to know how to take care of me.. that is the hard part la, cos like i said, i only allow few pple to see my vulnerability, so he has to be one i am totally open with, then he can take care of me wad!! *shy..* haha



anyway, i WANT TO BE A WRITER!! all the girls out there, ok and some guys i guess.. read karen kingsbury's books!! they are good... i wanna be like her, cos i can't imagine myself writing like john ortberg or phillip yancey.. but i can see myself writing like her.. she writes fictional story books with christian themes.. beautiful.. (:



struggles normal christians go through.. like having a terminal disease, or the difficulty with sharing to a hard-hearted sister.. very heartfelt one the stories.. can cry!! eh eh, weiyan and ana can go read together la!! share the one piece of tissue again.. ((: ohhh... but i forgot.. do they even read in the first place!?!? haha..



i know this post has probably been a boring and long one.. but i guess if you managed to pull through and read every word.. you would have known the real me just a little better.. (:

cheerios!